Friendship in Vietnam

Like in many other countries, friendship in Vietnam is built on mutual understanding, empathy, and trust. However, the concept of friendship in Vietnam differs significantly from that in North America and Western cultures.

For Vietnamese people, merely knowing someone does not constitute friendship. True friendship is established gradually. When Vietnamese individuals refer to you as their friend, it signifies a deeper connection beyond simple acquaintance; they care about you, your family, your work, and your overall well-being.
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If you encounter them on the street, they may overwhelm you with numerous questions about your current life, which might come across as intrusive. However, this curiosity reflects their genuine concern for your well-being as friends. Additionally, while people in Western societies often greet friends with hugs and kisses, Vietnamese individuals tend to avoid physical contact, especially with friends of the opposite gender. In fact, some may view such actions as inappropriate, so it's best to refrain from physical greetings unless you share a close relationship with them.

Moreover, you might feel uneasy if a Vietnamese friend insists on paying the entire bill when you go out. Don’t worry; you can treat them next time. It is common for Vietnamese friends to take pleasure in treating one another, whether it's for a meal or inviting each other to family gatherings.